It looks like you have the SR22 map set to Track up, while the SR22TN is set to North Up. This can be selected via the "Menu" key when on the map.
I'm not quite sure what you mean here. There are three options of using the aircraft.
If you select "start with engines running" in X-Plane, the switches will start in a standard flight config. This overrides the other option.
In the SR22 menu, if "Persistent systems" on the general tab is selected, then the aircraft will have the switches left where they last were left.
If neither of the two, everything should start turned off.
If things are acting like neither of these behaviors, typically this is a result of file permissions set in Windows on the directory where X-Plane is selected preventing us from saving the changes you made to the files.