ADMIN NOTE:
SkyMaxx Pro v5.0.1 has been released and supersedes this post for the time being:
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We have received numerous reports of insanely high RAM usage up to the point X-Plane eventually crashes and/or FPS are simply unsustainable.
In every one of these instances, XPRealistic has been in use and the culprit of the issue.
Our best guess at the moment would be that they are somehow changing the format of the depth buffer, which would mess up our attempts to copy it for our shadow and soft particle effects, and ultimately causing terrible memory leaks.
The fix on this is potentially going to need to come from their side. As of this writing I have reached out to the main developer to offer him a copy of SMP v5 so we can work together.
In the meantime, you have a couple of options:
1. Remove XPRealistic entirely.
or try...
2. Unticking "Natural movements" and "Ground Shakings" in XP realistic v2.
We have received a report that #2 does work, but in all cases option #1 does for sure resolve the insane memory leak.
I will do my best to keep everyone updated here on how the XPRealistic developer works with us.