First thing I would ask of anyone is to not compare aircraft addons. The reason is, the Saab I made with Jim several years ago, was the only addon that many people think was causing X-Plane to crash when run with xEnviro. After we dug around and found nothing wrong with the Saab code, we asked the xEnviro devs to check xEnviro. And they had indeed found a small problem that was the cause of the crashes. And it was ONLY happening with the Saab. The next xEnviro update addresses this problem.
Not all add ons are created equal. The TBM is filled with very complex code that has tapped into things other add ons haven't tapped into yet, and is pushing the X-Plane API to it's limits. For this reason, other plugins, which may appear to work fine with most other add ons, can contribute to a CTD with 1 small error in 1 line of code when run with the TBM or some other complex add on.
That's why we ask people to do this process of elimination. We've had people tell us we should be responsible with making sure the TBM doesn't crash with other plugins, but it's unreasonable to ask any developer to go out and purchase or download every single plugin in the community to test against. Especially freeware plugins, where support is very limited and it's a case of "use at your own risk."
In the case of "Something reinstalled our exception handler, replaced it with 0000000000000000", this is X-Plane doing something to the TBM (reinstalling our exception handler...), but is not giving us any details on why.
If the user can follow the steps of removing plugins, and then testing, it speeds up our process of finding the problem, if it is with the TBM, we look into it. But if not, we...the developers, or the customer, can make contact with the plug in developer and ask them to take a look at their plugin and make sure it is truly bug free.
Just to address your last comment. I wouldn't say many people are getting this error. I've personally never got this error, but I only run X-Plane with 3 plugins. We always tune into streams where people fly the TBM, and I've seen one streamer (out of 6) get this error several versions ago.
By all means, you are free to just wait for an update, as there are a few people getting this error, and we can possibly determine the cause, but every little bit helps.
In any case, as far as we're concerned and if it is on us, rest assured, it will be fixed. If it's the fault of a plugin author, then it's up to them. We can't work around them, if their plugins are faulty.