Re point 1 John, if you watch Citationmax1’s stream of this plane https://www.twitch.tv/videos/687677938 (he has 1000 hours in the real Cirrus sr22, I believe) just before it was released he talks about how realistic this pitch up with flaps application is. He mentions an increase of 50’. I tried it and that’s exactly what I got - 50’ increase. Needs some aggressive trimming but I can get it stabilized quickly enough. From your post it sounds as though you also have real world experience of this plane, so it’s an interesting point.
JP